Behaviour Time Calculator — Robb Falls Consultancy

Your Child

Child's age

Behaviour incidents per day (meltdowns, refusals, defiance, aggression)

Average minutes spent managing each one

Days per week this happens

Your Household

Adults sharing this load

Extra minutes per day lost to morning or bedtime friction because of this

Evenings per week disrupted or cancelled because of it

Nights per week your own sleep is affected because of it

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Severity Rating

What the research says

Time Lost

hours a week spent managing behaviour
instead of enjoying time with your child

Over a year, that's hours you don't get back

Based on the incidents, routine friction, disrupted evenings, and lost sleep you entered. Doesn't account for the emotional toll on top of the time itself.

How much time is behaviour
actually taking from your parenting?

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How much time is behaviour
actually taking from your parenting?